IMO you should validate her feelings on being overwhelmed.

As for the window I would use is it as a 180 opportunity. If you never took care of that kinda stuff take the opportunity to 180 and do it. If you always took care of it then push back on it.

Truth of matter is either way it changes nothing.

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