Yes my thoughts exactly.

Should I validate how she's been overwhelmed and is taking time off work?

I have not replied to her text still. Should I respond once I've booked someone to come round to fix things?


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020