On the DB boards, the people who speak of limerence tend to cling to it.

The best thing you can do is to forget about her. Stay out of her way so that she can see that the OM is a dirtbag and that without you she still isn't feeling happy. It will take a while.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.