"hoosjim" - Thank you for your write up. This makes a lot of sense and thanks for the other thread to read. She did mention she may move in with her parents and this will help with me detaching. I've already asked her to continue staying in another room and would never have thought about doing that a couple of weeks ago. Maybe my process is slower but I feel better knowing that some have taken longer to learn how to Detach. GAL is easy for me because I play a lot of golf and that takes up a lot of my time during the day on the weekends.