BB, when a woman decides she's done with the marriage and goes wayward, she will drag up every reason great and small from throughout history to justify her actions. I'm not giving you a free pass on what happened, but being 15 years ago I doubt it was a major factor in her current decision to go wayward. My XW came up with some pretty desperate stuff because there was nothing like that in our history. So it was things like I was "too hard on the kids". But then later she said "can you tell the kids to do XYZ, they always listen to you but never do what I say". I think even she saw the irony in it. Things that she used to hold up as your strengths are now things to complain about. Things that were your weaknesses are things to complain about. Things that you never did or said are now things to complain about. Welcome to WW world!


Me: 59 w/ S17, D23, D26
Current R: 4 years
Previous M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:56