You can always apply tough love. It's never too late. We all have made mistakes, start with today. Start following Sandi rules now!!!
Stop holding the blame for her affair on your hands. The reason for her exposure is because of her A. If she wasn't having an A, exposure would never been a problem. Let it go. You told another the Spouse the truth and live on those words. You told another Spouse the Truth. You told another Spouse the truth.
M:36 W:36 T:11 M:10 S16, S12, S9, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.