WOW! I just read Sandi's 2 threads and will read all of them. How did I miss reading these initially? I have made so many mistakes over the course of the past two months that it now seems like I can't possibly save this marriage. Is it too late to show Tough Love and get this back on track and earn respect back from her?

Should I show tough love now that her exposure to some point was at my hands? Round and Round we go!!