BB,

Are you willing to be her backup plan? Have you set your boundaries? What do you want for yourself and your future?

Your WW is on a long path of self reflection. Get out of her way!!!! She's wants sympathy, poor her!

Her new lines, "I made a mistake"
"My life is ruined"
"Why did you tell his Wife, you didn't have to tell her"
"I'm not a bad person"
"Stop treating me like a criminal, everyone is treating me like a criminal"

Get out of her way! All those terms above is from a person looking to be rescue from the DESTRUCTION SHE HAS CAUSED. Now SHE has to deal with the CONSEQUENCES. It's not your job to RESCUE HER. It's your job to validate and be the light tower.

Validation:

"I made a mistake, it was a mistake" You, "no comment, no need to validate or say a word"
"My life is ruined, you ruined my life by telling his wife". You, "no comment, no need to validate or say a word"
"Why did you tell his Wife, you didn't have to tell her" You (If you want to be honest, "because she asked me and could no longer live with this lie.) No comments after that.
"I'm not a bad person" You, "you are not a bad person"
"Stop treating me like a criminal, everyone is treating me like a criminal" You, "You aren't a criminal".

Keep moving forward, keep posting.


M:36 W:36
T:11 M:10
S16, S12, S9, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.