I think not chasing is best. Let him miss you. The real question in my mind is this: is M willing to learn some new relationship skills?
Don't give up because you're afraid of asking that question, and don't give up until you get an answer to that question. I hope that makes sense. I'm frazzled right now so I apologize if I am not being clear. xoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ BD 4/6/15 D Final 12/23/16
Take what you want and leave the rest. No harm, no foul.