You are so right dawn. He is so mired in his own stuff, he can’t see outside of it.

And he just backed out of helping me Wednesday, something we have been planning for a few weeks now because he has to take care of something else. I told him not to worry about me when he said he was doing what he had to do on med. he said “I’ll try to help, but I’m sure you can manage on your own”no sorry. This was his answer after I told him I have been struggling.

I said don’t bother. You take care of your sh!t I’ll take care of mine.

Nice.