She wants to tell the boys why we are not living together and I would like to talk before we tell the boys.

Its been 12 months since the argument that really started the ball openly rolling to divorce in her head.

Should I just say ok and we'll talk with the boys and ask about papers?

She does not want to talk to any therapists, has been living at her parents nearby for 4 months and the boys have been splitting time in our house and there.

My other thread was/ is "what should I do? Ignore?


Me. 46
Her 37

Years together 10
Married 7.5

Kids 4 and 6