Originally Posted by Cadet
Detachment is like an onion, there are lots of layers to it and

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Is detachment simply put "I don't give a [censored]!"
this is one of the layers.

Dont think you will get to all the layers at once but start somewhere and keep working on it.


I would add that while deep down that is part of it.....externally you show compassion and empathy. The "lovingly" part.

Think of it more like your emotional state. Detachment (and google Self Differentiation as that is part of it too) means that you do not have an emotional reaction to what the WAS/WS does or says.

Last edited by Steve85; 06/27/19 12:53 PM.

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