Originally Posted by Ready2Change
"I will enthusiastically HELP YOU pack up your stuff mentality"

Easy to say hard to do. The harder it is to do, the more it is the right thing to do.

Pick any mantra that sounds good to you:

"I do not want to be with a woman who does not want to be with me"

"I want to be with a woman who want to be ONLY with me"

"I will not share my woman with another man"

I understand the mentality and packing her stuff is a definite 180. I refer back to my notes from Divorce Remedy. Michele recommended that we keep the following question in mind, "Is what I'm about to do going to bring me closer or bring farther away from my goal?" Michele also says timing is everything and you must be patient.

Are there examples of others that have taken this step and were successful in having their W reconcile?


Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16
PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18
PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19
Ríville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20
W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20