I'd say: "Can you take S8 and D4 over there with you? I have some things I need to do out tonight. I'll be glad to swing by later and pick them back up."
Text sent, awaiting her response...
She replied “Don’t start. I know what you are doing. Ask your parents. They are only 5 mins away. Or wait until tomorrow night.”
H:"I will. Just wanted to give you the option first. Thanks for the quick response."
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712