Another concern I have if I rock the boat before she closes on her separation house April 1st and officially moves out is that she’ll go ballistic and fight to keep our primary house in D.

I like the idea of asking her to take the kids with her tonight.

Any other thoughts / recommendations?

Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16
PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18
PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19
R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20
W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20