Originally Posted by sandi2
Is she a SAHM?


No, we are both professionals and have made a very nice life for ourselves with a beautiful home.

We live on several acres and she has a horse on site that she loves. The horse and large property are another area of her resentment towards me. When we bought the property and built the house about 4 years ago, I made her feel like I never wanted it. However, over the past year or so once we finally got everything established, I’ve really enjoyed living here. Friendly neighbors, convenient location to work and stores, and a quiet, peaceful environment.

At the end of December, she was trying to convince me to move out and find a rental. She said “You don’t have a horse, why do you need the large property?” I replied to her “Why would I move out, I’ve found happiness here and our kids are comfortable here. This is our dream home we built together and I believe one day you’ll come back.” A few days later she made the comment that I chose the house over what she wanted.


Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16
PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18
PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19
R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20
W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20