Hi Choppy,


Counter-intuitive. That is what this is.

You want to browse through her phone. Don't. The more you think that is a good idea, the worse idea it is.

Take your focus off of her and put it on you. Read up on ways to become more attractive:

Start here:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...ain=47467&Number=2057224#Post2057224
Coach is very wise. He seduced his wife back.

Read this:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2057372#Post2057372



Steve85 reminds me of coach. He is very wise as well. Listen to him.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"

Persevere = happily being patient over a long period of time