Man that was painful to read I am so sorry for you man.

I think you need to start off with the realization that pursuit and relationship talks don't work and make matters worse.

I also want you to know that this is going to take a really long time to completely play out (months most likely years) and you are not looking to rekindle a spark right now. You are in damage control right now. When I say that I mean that you can't make matters better right now but you can certainly make them worse.

Where is she at with getting her own apartment?

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