C,

I am sorry you are here right now but this is the best place you can be. For now I would put aside the Mort Fortel's CDs and give her space.

Originally Posted by Choppy
No fights, just being, watching TV on the couch together etc just not much talking and no intimacy.

Most guys think because there is no fighting or arguing that everything is ok. You my friend are in the friend zone right now. What guy does she have her eye on right now?

Originally Posted by Choppy
Last night she bring up one of getting an apartment for space so we can move on with our lives.
You simply say "I want to work on our marriage. If you do not and need space I understand that you feel that way. I will not try to stop you from moving out".

Can you provide more of the story?


M:50 W:45
T:22 M:16
S:14 D:10

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