Yep got all of the above and I thought we were moving well towards being ok and then up pops the moving on with our lives conversation.

She said maybe one of us should get an apt. which would strain us financially and her parents live 1/2 mile away but she would be away from the boys. Some how she doesn't get it that I would be away from them too.

I guess I just wanted to confirm the "not believing what they are saying" and watch how they are doing and just stay the course.

Me. 46
Her 37

Years together 10
Married 7.5

Kids 4 and 6