I don't see these as temp checks as much as they are vague "it is over so go ahead and file" messages. WASs and WSs especially are notoriously lazy when it comes to the actual D. I know my W was "I don't want to be married anymore, and want a D". But every conversation after that related to D was to framed in the "when you (meaning me) file, blah blah blah". She had no intentions of every doing any of the work herself.
M(51), W(52),D(16) M-20, T-23 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018