Originally Posted by Steve85
You distance, her behavior "improves". I quoted that because it doesn't really, she just changes it to manipulate you.

The advice I've been given is that W will find new ways to manipulate you to get what she wants and will stop at nothing.

Do as she wants and she will use you and have no respect for you, don't do as she wants and she will wreck you. You just have to get out of her way.