Bit confused. I am not going out of my way to avoid, and following the detachment rules.... But in one of sandis posts she states
*Immediately withdraw his physical presence from her as much as possible. He should spend time with his kids, of course, but not alone time with her. He should not engage in usual family events, celebrations, etc. It is better the kids be disappointed for a shorter period of time than a lifetime of hurt.
Hence i am no longer watching TV in the same room as her. We spend time together in the main lounge with the kids, but once they are in bed, i watch TV in the other room..
Regardless, it is really getting to her lol.. She keeps making snide comments..
I went out last night, and she spent the whole time i was out "online" on whatsapp to the OM..
So i think in one way she has noticed the detament, but on the other side, she is using this "space" to spend more time messaging him..
But feeling so much more positive. Best week in months.
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.