I didn't want to hijack the other thread but in 4 years being on this board, approximately 90% of the posters end up divorced. I remember for like a 2 year span everyone used Texhubby as the example, because he was the only one for years who prevented a divorce. The three years of limbo almost killed him though.
I think more realistically speaking is a chance at recon many years down the road. Once it has been determined the grass isn't greener on the other side.
Even now with Joe2017. Truth be told he was terrible at DB and it looks like he got lucky that her OP was a loser.
Maybe you are right. I think 50/50 gives the DBer hope that if they play their cards right there is a chance.
Oh...and all OP are losers!
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