I am dealing with a very strong desire for revenge (Wife cheated on me and lied about it being "just emotional" for YEARS) I am struggling with GAL and feel like the only way I can get her attention is if I go OUT- like to a club or bar or dance party or something where there's at least the possibility that I could get revenge. I feel like most of me knows this is a bad idea, but some of me...doesn't care? Please talk me out of it?