Wow,Job, just rereading this post on detachment and shocked to see my self of four years ago there. It's humbling. And makes me think I haven't learned a thing about detachment yet. I no longer respond to anything about our R, but I am not sure total detachment possible for me in this situation unless I can find a way for total financial separation. He will always have something to get at me about as long as we have a financial connection through our rentals, and it is confusing to ignore discussions of shared assets.

I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living.
Wait for the Lord with courage.
Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.