Needed to revisit these today!
Always good to reflect and refocus.
What is the goal?
What is your objective?
What are you doing today right now at this moment to help that along?
I will not shoot myself in the foot today!
I will keep my cool no matter what my spouse throws at me today!
I will give positive attention to my kids today!
I will take care of myself today.
I will not worry about what my W is doing today.

M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18