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Possible? I was wondering, Is it possible for H to return to "the tunnel" after all this time?
No Contact & Anger I have the 'NC' approach re him. This seems to have made him VERY ANGRY recently - re *visit, below. It is as though he starts the day wanting to pick a fight (through txt msgs). He appears to be trying to find character flaws with me (to trap?? dunno ..)
I was told that because I 'moved on with my life' recently, that this angered him. He did not realize how much I moved on until not long ago.
*The Impromptu Visit & The Big 'Reveal' i did not expect him. xh happily popped over one day without notifying me. He was a bit surprised. The 'new' problem started with that ...
We were not close of course, & more so since the separation as expected. Exchanged msgs when necessary. He was doing his thing & i was trying HARD as you know! but that visit, revealing some differences in my life, changed much re him. After the visit, he began initiating dialog (not interest - Im may still be too old! & of course this need to communicate was in "interest of child", c) - but I didn't respond as he wanted. i also did not accept a recent invitation because he still projects his mother's behaviour (should something happen), is consistently suspicious of me and punishes me for it. So I AVOID - i dont need it!!! He was persistent about that invitation & not happy about the 'no-acceptance' .
Weird The persistence continued, and eventually he stopped (as I was not encouraging anyway). Recently though, the msgs are 'seething-raging'. Nothing to implicate himself, but he may be angry that I am not 'complying'. Something is very, very different. He continues to get pity from a few people re what a b* Ive been & is really good with the lies. Clearly, very smart & charming.
Possible at this LATE stage? Could that be possible tho? A return to tunnel at this stage?!!? Sometimes, i dont know why I feel that he's up to something. Its a strange, subtle but strong (anger) ... if that makes any sense
pbetra ---- M: 15 yrs (in 2014) BD: 6/03/2014 Infidelity ('known' from July 2014) Denied PA Feb 2015 2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact. Back briefly 2017 (after family death) Separated 2017