Please urgent.
Om2 after be on her work place for hair cut,FB her about go for lunch/diner. For now I do not suppose to know. How to act;
1. By just keep kids own for invitation
2. If she agree and wait for free time - hide from me
3. If she let me know before meet
4. If she let me know after meet

What to do ....how to set boundaries
Should I shut my mouth. And play cool.


Please some one calm me.
Should I contact him - hi is 12 years younger


Me39
W 41
T18 M12

D8
S10

I was WH 2011
WAW from 2012
WW from 2016
OM1 2016 (just friends) limerance
OM2 2017 (just friends) limerance

Full blown EA - not yet confirmed