if it makes you feel better to have debated his marriage failures again, then so be it. You do realize this discussion is not new, right? I mean he's heard all this before (to the extent he hears any of it and isn't just tuning out)..
Maybe you can eliminate these or reduce them to one Minute talking points (literally) and stay on message,
or better yet, just not even go there at all.
So back to YOU and your path.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016