Thank you Train and BluWave. That means a lot to me.

Quote from T:
He obviously has forgotten this version of me because he didn't respond well to my lack of sympathy for his sh!t. But I'm starting to find who I was that I've lost during all of this becoming this meek wife that was afraid to push him the wrong way. Now I am fighting for what's right for the kids and I regardless of how he views me.

This is terrific news! We all knew you had it in's just that you've been in a vulnerable state the past several months. Yes, I am quite proud you, T. smile

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!