(((Sandi,))) -I could not find your thread so I had to post here.
Somehow I missed that your dear daughter passed away. OMG, what?? I'm so terribly sad for you and your h. It is the worst kind of loss. It's "out of order" in nature.
Thank God your grandchildren have you and your h as grandparents. In a way, your grandson is effectively an orphan, so I send him my prayers and hope.
RE Your former sonInLaw - bad news that he is, has lost a treasure in your daughter and a lifetime of honor as a husband and father. And he is married to an OW, a woman another person living a life without honor as a mother or woman. I'd hate to be her friend or sister (or kid). Ugh...I would be banned if I wrote out what I think of them.
Anyway, again, I'm Very sorry.
AND Sorry for the hijack, T3.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016