Not sure if this thread will still work. I've been quiet around here for a while, but wanted to post an update today.
We met with the lawyers to resolve support and some other fin stuff. I can't believe it just occurred to me that this "negotiation" is not really a negotiation at all: I have nothing to negotiate! He pretty much holds all the cards. I'm really just relying on his sense of responsibility and integrity to negotiate a support payment that is more than what the court would probably decree. He was so arrogant in the way he spoke to me and my attorney. How is he a salesman?
So, we are almost there. I'm really ready for this to be over soon. Deep breaths.