Another thing just occurred to me. He mother had tried to 'entice' him re bank related matter. He said (at the time), that he would rather starve that accept anything from that $%$%^ (this was just pre-mlc so not that long ago!)

Now he has no place, no money ...

It wreaks with suspicion. I may ask him to talk sometime this week BUT I need to calm down !!!

M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017