Barry, I've been following your thread because your story is the same as mine. The advice Train is giving you is the advice I wish I had months before my separation. Please Listen and hold on. It will help in the long run.
Train, I appreciate you not giving up on Barry. I continue to monitor his thread to apply the same advice you give to him.
Me:28 W:24 M:4 years S5 S2 S: July 2014 DB: Jan 2015
Me:28 W:24 M:4 years S5, SS5, S2 Separated: 07/01/14 Asked for D 1/09/15