Makes complete sense and that's who I turned into. Asking H who he was texting the last few weeks, saying you're always on your phone - and then he started sleeping with his phone in his pocket ---- see!! I knew he was up to something
He brought it up in counseling. Said that be was sick of me saying he's always on his phone , who is he talking to, etc. So he said 'you can just tell when someone is snooping, she was asking all the time, so I started putting it in my pocket because I don't want her snooping."
It was my fear and worry based on what happened before and because of HIS changed behavior. So instead of STFU I asked and it pushed him away further