It was and is still a huge issue. If he can't even tell me where he is - meaning being there at night then I feel it's a problem. I have never cared where he was before because I trusted him. However him going back into the lions den I would like to know.
I think he doesn't tell me because he is afraid to. The same reason why he sends me texts about important conversations because he wants to avoid confrontation
You understand that these are all EXPECTATIONS ^^^^^
I agree why should you trust him?
Trust is earned and you should judge him by his actions not his words.