I'm not excusing his behavior as only financial stress but I truly don't believe it's XOW. I've been Facebook stalking. Her and her BF are back together and just got back from vacation. All appears well - engagement posts etc.
So I got home. H was on the coach. I came in and just said hi everyone as the boys came up and hugged me. H said nothing. I walked in the kitchen packed the boys lunch asked about their day etc (they wait up for me on the nights I work as long as it's before 9pm)
I got the boys settled and asked them if they brushed their teeth. H answered for them. Then I made a point to be in the kitchen while he was on the couch and said hey, my grandma got discharged today. I'm so happy for her. He said oh that's good. Then I said did you want the leftovers for lunch or can I take them. He said no thank you you can have them. I said okay thanks and went into my room and got in the shower. Sitting in my room now with a glass of wine and the bachelor