Yes, of course I agree with Wonka. Do what you feel is best. I offered a radical alternative because sometimes a moment like this is a chance to survive something you never thought you could.

H and I hosted a birthday party for our D just about 10 weeks after he walked out on me. His parents, cousins, tons of people there. I had a lot of anxiety about it, but decided to look at it as a chance to show myself, my D and my WAH that I was stronger than anyone ever thought I was.

Getting through that day so successfully was a huge boost to my confidence. I was so scared to do it, but I'm glad I went through with it.

Wishing you peace and health on this holiday and in the new year.


Me 38 H 40
D 3
T 8 M 6
BD 10/2013