" 25 who has been incredible helping me see and admit my failings and my A to my W would tell me to say "so what?" and keep it moving."

Are you sure she said to tell your W "so what"? That does not sound like 25. I would bet she suggested saying it to yourself.

I have to go along with Wonka on tbis issue of her appologies. "I have heard your appologies,W, but I have yet to hear you say you intend to make ammends. Until then, it really feels too little too late".

Of course, you may not want to say anything today. Not responding to her apology says a lot.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!