So... you want to unhappily co-parent? You want to be adversaries? How would that affect your son?

This is where detachment is really really important, I think.

I think Wonka's message is awesome . Though I wonder if that last bit comes off as controlling: "don't talk to me like that"

You can't control what she says, but you can tell her that you find it insulting when she says that. A subtle difference, but maybe important in this case? I dunno. Curious what others think.

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