I am living back at home but still S and just waiting to see what her next move is, but I am not letting myself worry about it as much as I can.
I have suspicions of an A but nothing concrete and I have not asked because it is not necessarily a dealbreaker.
My W has said no to counseling of any type so that makes it a little tough.
I just keep trying to follow DB principles and Praying W sees all that Im doing for myself is working and will stick. She has mentioned the things I am doing so she knows but she is not happy about it. Im sure it is the "why now, and not before" question that is troubling her
I think your advice^^^ is very sound.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014