"I told her not to come back this time because he says that but come home when your ready to be my wife and partner was that the right thing to do"

Yes it was the wrong thing to do.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.