Part of me feels that the table may be set so to speak. Tiring to get h to watch spending and that includes how much spent going out. Wants to still go out to dinner 2 nights a week. Told him one night could be take out. We will see. This long history of him having the last word has to be changed. This is going to be a non negotiable for me.

H told me ow emailed him and asked how he was. He said he did not reply. Hope so.