I have my own thread about my sitch, but what about the W who is most likely having an emotional affair with another woman? The other woman is probably a lesbian (previous rumours from the workforce about another relationship that went sour), and is possibly grooming my W towards a physical affair. IE, taking advantage of my W emotional state and depression according to the marriage counselor I managed to get her to once only, leading up to the separation
Please note I am not against lesbians or any other group of people.

ME:51 W:46
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.