This started in 2009. There were a bunch of us who called it the db rules... Then when someone would ask for the 34 rules sandi would post them. So we just started to call them Sandi's list. And it just stuck.
And that snooping line. It changed too over time.
It used to be about monitoring activities and verification. The LRT one was to stop monitoring as the spouse was no longer living with you as then it would be spying. But like everything if you paid the phone bill then you would not be spying. You would be monitoring what your money goes towards.
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