I might have tried to organize the do's from the don'ts.
Well there is always room for a new and improved version
Yeah, get rid of # 10. Knowledge is power and it is very foolish to stick your head in the sand. Keep track of all spending! WAS could be draining bank accts, wasting marital assets on the A (which is illegal in my state, and does not impress a judge at all!) hiding marital assets or otherwise shifting them around. You may still be "in love" with WAS, but that doesn't mean you have to be poor too.