Coach is trying to help Pickle, and what he is suggesting worked well for him.

He is right about the proper tools, got to know what the job is to know what tools to bring to bear on it.

You think your wife is in an MLC, check out the resource threads at the top of the MLC forum, if pieces fit, post there, the stance is more in line with what your are thinking. But don't make the situation fit because you want it too.

Learning to play ELO's Evil Woman is a bit...passive aggresive.

Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK