Do you honestly think though that she will honor the "no OM" if you are roomates?
What will it hurt to ask?
If she says no, we'll just sell the house, divide the property, settle custody and part company.
That's the worst case in my view.
She will also have to respond to my counter proposal in writing. If she says she must continue to pursue the relationsip with OM, I'll have it writing to explain why Daddy cannot live with Mommy while she gives to another man what is strictly reserved for her husband.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."