Originally Posted By: Coach

So once she divorces you then you want to set a boundary?

Has what you have been doing working?

Do some research on what women find attractive. Be that man.


Setting a boundery regarding OM backfired before. It made me look like an a$$ and she fled to the OM.
Once there is D, I can "expose" EA and she loses the lovely home she took pride in decorating.

I'm getting served, so nothing has been working so far as I can tell since reading DR.

Women do find me attractive. I only know of one woman who doesn't. I have no esteem issues.


Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."